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Mother

the truth of it    was that I believe she was what she said she was

hard as it is to believe completely in anything    especially in what most of us project to others about our public selves

knowing what I am

what most of us are

knowing what I accept without shame but keep for myself or share when I can with my best and truest lover fortunate to be loved in my daily facts

in my realities rather than in my awkward transcendent imaginings

a surprising present tense  . . .  I had not expected

But she was or she became someone of quite another order

and, I think

what she said was true

that she loved him or the part of him that was herself encrusted thus

frozen and perfected by her  . . .

yes by her misunderstanding her simplification her keeping what was pleasant    and heroic and discarding the rest

but yes also by her faith and her ability to see deeply through everything and past everything to what was innocent and pure and beautiful

to those things he could only pretend but could not see or be

even when

he was

and

she was

And so I her son

believed her

when she said she never stopped loving him and was faithful

I felt sorry for her that she had so created a perfect personal world arranged to be so lovely

and worthy

by herself

and had not even secretly

messily wonderfully

ever fallen in love

again

from 2012 — Bill Eberle

May 18, 2012, revised June 4, 2012     © 2013, Bill Eberle