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Mother

the truth of
it    was
that I believe
she was
what she said she was

hard as it is to believe
completely
in anything    especially
in what most of us
project to others
about our public
selves

knowing what I am

what most of us are

knowing what I accept
without shame
but keep for myself
or share when I can
with my best and
truest lover
fortunate to be
loved in my
daily facts

in my realities
rather than
in my awkward
transcendent
imaginings

a surprising present
tense  . . .  I had not
expected

But she was
or she became
someone of quite
another order

and, I think

what she said
was true

that she loved him
or the part of him
that was herself
encrusted thus

frozen and perfected
by her  . . .

yes by her misunderstanding
her simplification
her keeping what was
pleasant    and heroic
and discarding the rest

but yes also by
her faith
and her ability
to see deeply
through everything
and past everything
to
what was innocent
and pure and
beautiful

to those things
he could only
pretend
but could not
see
or be

even when

he was

and

she was

And so I
her son

believed her

when she said
she never
stopped loving him
and was faithful

I felt sorry for her
that she had
so created
a perfect personal world
arranged
to be so lovely

and worthy

by herself

and had not
even secretly

messily
wonderfully

ever
fallen in love

again

from 2012 — Bill Eberle

May 18, 2012, revised June 4, 2012     © 2013, Bill Eberle